As far as I know a diary should not be an open book for everyone, it is where you keep your deepest secret and your truest feeling you’ll ever experience. It is where you pour all your emotions as a defense mechanism against anger, pain and being afraid.
It is called the private place where you write down your feelings, thoughts, opinion as well a record of events and experiences. It is considered a confidential book of an individual; a piece of work that not everyone can accomplish and the best novel preserve that can move a thousand heart but will measure someone courage to publish the story. Every words written on your personal journal is meant to be kept back and destined to be burn into ashes not to reveal classified tale that might stir someone life.
Unfortunately I was awed on how the civilizations write down every details of their life in Social Medias. The so called private story of your life is circulating; everyone is watching and reading your dreadful and awful experience because you happily shared it to the nation. A part of your life that shouldn’t be broadcast on the first place is being aired in social media, as if you don’t give a damn care whether you will get bullied or insulted.
What the heck happen on your mind and how powerful is social media that made you think like crazy.
Now almost everyone is asking, why people are so mean and rude?
I think we better ask our self.
What have we done to experience awful and shameful things?
For the reason that you want attention and be famous that you make social media your diary; you expose your book that anyone can openly read the whole content and allow them to gossip your story. You consider social media as you best friend that you can always tell everything about you thinking that it will comfort you.
Who should we blame why we suffer from cyber-bullying, depression and misunderstanding?
Is it the social media, the people around or us?
Think at least 10th times before you write down a piece of your thoughts, feelings, and opinion in social media, same goes on posting personal videos. Stop looking for empathy in social media because it is where the greatest paparazzi hang out in order to gossip. Your story is like a blood donation for them to live.
“Your life is precious which you hold the value, never bargain to anyone nor bestow.”