I know someone out there is having some trouble in sleeping, someone is trying to stop his/her tears to flow, someone is badly hurt, and some are lonely and feel all alone. Whatever the reasons for all of that, we need to at least blink our eyes and breathe for our self.
It’s okay to feel lonely and wants to cry if you miss your love ones, it’s okay to feel the pain when someone leave, it’s okay to have sleepless night because you think too much. That was fine, it’s not only you who feel that way, some feel worst than what you’re experiencing today.
Let’s say it’s normal for us human to have an abnormal mind and feelings, both women and men are the same if you will agree. Both men and women are sensitive, crazy, fickle mind and have unbelievable thinking. The way we understand each other makes the difference.
This simple step might help you.
is not only a word that simply cross your mind but it’s an “attitude“ that makes changes to one self. Easy to say but difficult to practice, because we are all lazy to think, we just do what we want and what we believe.
Let’s think this way, every time you feel down, lonely, hurt or crying, why you don’t try to just stop and try to understand what is going on. Why, why & why? Ask it to yourself, for you to understand and for you to be able to overcome it and for you to breathe easily. Don’t tell me that you don’t know the answer on that question. If you fail to distinguish the reason then that is a big “LIE”.
You are hiding something and you are afraid to accept reality. One thing is definitely true, you and you can only explain what, why and how things are. So you are the sole responsible on what you feel now, means you can only help yourself. Well, your friend and family is a great factor to help you drop some burden, pain or whatever it is but it’s you can move your feet and open your eyes to walk towards happiness.
I consider this as the trickiest part, why? That is a very complicated thing to explain. Truth is “it’s not easy to accept”, sometimes we need to receive some beatings or numerous pain for our eyes and mind to open. Being blinded by reality makes our mind and heart in trouble. If we don’t know how to understand the situation we will be clouded by hates and pain that will later on make us uncertain. Don’t let your guard down because sometimes your heart might play your mind. Beware on what your mind is whispering and your heart is murmuring, seldom they break some agreement on each other that cause heavy damage. Your mind accepts the situation but your heart lost its way, which is the terrible thing to happen. You will be back to the start of the line. So never be trick and take your time to evaluate yourself, don’t run too fast because you might be tip off before reaching the finish line. Try to be aware that it is not a race that has a time limit instead it is a road that was prepared for you to walk with care and to learn something.
it is the easiest but sometimes the hardest thing to give. It’s easy to forgive someone who ask for forgiveness and accept fault. On the other hand it’s very hard to forgive someone who never ask forgiveness and never accept wrongdoings. I mean it will take time to forgive, especially when it really hurts.
However, one thing is for sure it will be easier on your part if you learn to understand and accept, once you’ve done, it won’t complicate things. They say “forgive and forget”
– I would say definitely impossible. You may forgive but you will never ever forget because memories will always stay.